Where: a model 

How: examples 

spoken : I hear what you say .

Unspoke: in Britian-- but i  am not interested in

in china or france ---he is listening to me

we should notice spoken and unspoken text in different cultures.

Culture is verb referring to what people do/behave/ value/ believe  in daily life in a certain culture.

e.g.  how to start a small talk with a stranger

rules are for most of people instead of  all.

Learning cultures:1. discovering and comparing cultures between ours and others = intercultural communicative competance

Teaching culture: How to discover , compare, analyse and critique our and their cultures.