一. help someine who needs help from in the proper way.    the story of a poor boy who are selling the pencils in rags. ,a businessman gave him 10 dollars but later he picked up the pencil and said you are a businessman just like me, I bought your product. many years later, the poor boy became a businessman. 

1, respect them, dont think you are superior to them

2, understand what they really needer

三， the spirit of craftsmanship is urgently needed

1, it promotes the quality of products and the spirit of excelsior

四， VR   use it？

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A great British writer in the 19th century Charles Dickens once made a quote full of insight and foresight. it goes like this: electronic communication will never subtitude the real face of someone who with their soul encourages another person to be brave and true

 the old and wise man actually gave us a slap on the face of modern people especially these anchors. the reason of popularity of these kind of anchors, as I see it, lies in two parts. the first is the boomimg of the internet and technology. sometimes for the people, the internet has been developed too far taht it actually becomes a virus in our body. for example, in the old days, when we were having meals, people were likely to have hilarious chat and had great memories. but nowadays, cellphone,it seems that has been a necessary kitchen ware on our table.

and the second reason as I see is people's intolerance and impatience of solitude. the old days have gone by when people like Thoreau who were willing to sit by the Walden Pond and contemplate, but it seems nowadays,these anchors are itching to display themselves  regardless of the quality and the influence of the words they've said. and then I would like to analyze this kind of phenomenon. I thibk exchanging privacy for money is to deprive one's dignity

it reminds me of one philosopher of existentialism Kierkegaard      there are three despairs in human life, namely, people don't know the existence of ego, they are not willing to have the ego and moreover they can't have ego

the phenomenon of these kind of platforms is nothing but the reflection of lack of ego, responsibility and self-identification. and then problems may also emerge. the first problem might be the alienation. not omly will the alienation between people will emerge but also the alienation within onself can appear. peole will lack real and effective communication and moreover, people will lack the bravery and practical skills to face the real audio that life will break to them. the second problem, because of the lack of supervision and such transient development of this kind of onlibe platforms, immoral and illegal problemms may emerge

so sulutions may vary but since the time is limited, I eill just give you one short tip, surf less and resd more, Charles Dicken will shoe you the answer.

Oscar Wild once said that the only way to conqquer temptation is by yielding to it